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What do you do when you want to relax? How can you best help your partner to relax?
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Take a nap, or just have quiet time alone. What I can do for him is give him space to himself, and or a foot rub.
Get pampered (nails, hair, tanning) Lounge around the house and watch my favorite shows with my boyfriend.
Help him relax by scratching his back and watching something he wants to watch on tv.
Help him relax by scratching his back and watching something he wants to watch on tv.
Video games, back rub, foot massage, cup of tea. Or wine
Sometimes read blogs or other websites, or books on my Kindle. Also enjoy watching movies and going out with friends. How to help my partner relax: All of the above + massages :o)
play video games in an empty/sleeping house or veg out to a pizza and watch a good movie. for A? Massages, quiet candle lit evenings, bike rides, walks.
Drink and watch TV. Usually a foot rub gets her to relax a little.
Go somewhere quiet by myself. For her, give her a massage.
Take a long, hot shower. For him, his favorite beer and some quiet time.
Take a bubble bath. Let him sit near me and get comfortable.
I love doing sudojus to help me relax, or just layign around not doing anything so I can give my brain a break. I think he just likes to relax by watching tv and laying in bed so I could always give him a snuggle buddy :D
Shower, Let her take a nap.
Doing something that doesn't have a time limit or deadline.
read a good book (okay, or a gossip mag), watch football, cook a meal with my honey... he helps me relax by giving great back massages! i think cuddling me helps him to relax :)
Watch tv or play old easy video games.
Give her a light massage or play with her hair.
Give her a light massage or play with her hair.
watch videos of stupid video games online. Its nice to just watch something and not have to think much.
I can help my love relax by rubbing her feet and playing video games with her. Either that or just getting her a glass of wine.
I can help my love relax by rubbing her feet and playing video games with her. Either that or just getting her a glass of wine.
