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At what moment did you know you were comfortable with your partner?
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![Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Falling asleep on his chest in the back of his car. That was a defining moment for me
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
First minute.
![Female, >50 years, Engaged, NY, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
The moment I invited him to my apartment for a coffee.
![Female, >50 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
When we showered together.
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating, Gay](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
As absurd as it sounds the connection was instant. It took me a few weeks to admit it, or let go of the past....to stop being scared and skeptical. But I was comfortable from the beginning. She is my safety and home.
![Female, 26-30 years, Dating, Gay](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Don't forget you thought I was a serial killer at first lol
Female, 26-30 years, Dating, Gay | Nov 30, 2014
Female, 26-30 years, Dating, Gay | Nov 30, 2014
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating, Gay](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
That was a joke! Talk about never living anything down! Lol
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, Gay | Nov 30, 2014
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, Gay | Nov 30, 2014
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![Male, 41-50 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
When I risked telling her something forward and potentially embarrassing and she responded honestly and with the same tone that I said it I knew I would never be uncomfortable with her. She is amazing!
![Female, >50 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Ont he second date when we went to the rodeo. Holding his hand and being with him was so soothing.
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
aun no lo se quiero q vuelva para estarlo por fin
![Female, 26-30 years, Married, Gay](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
When I didn't feel the pressure to appear cool to her. When I ate normally in front of her, when I took a bath with her, when I fell asleep and drooled on her shirt. :))
![Male, 41-50 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
When I risked telling her something forward and potentially embarrassing and she responded honestly and with the same tone that I said it I knew I would never be uncomfortable with her. She is amazing!
![Female, 31-35 years, Married, AZ, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I considered his place home in dating days
![Male, 41-50 years, Engaged, FL, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
In between pof messages and First phone conversation.
![Female, 36-40 years, Engaged](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
After talking for a couple of weeks
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
The first time I held her & we held hands on our first date.
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
When I fared in front of her