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On a whole, she's great. So I wouldn't change anything from top to toe. hmmmmm, I would like her to innitiate conversation more. But other than that, she's perfect. Woman of my dreams.
Sometimes I wish he was a bit more touch with me... Not alot just sometimes I feel a bit of a fool always having to ask or reach out to him first for a hug.... And his lying, I understand that when he does it it's because he's trying to protect me, but I'm a big girl I don't need another dad. But he really is very lovely
I would change his ways.n my partner wud want change to my attitude
His stubborness
That he would have been honest and came out and told me of his infidelities instead of denying and finally admitting to it. I understand that him being gone with work and constantly having to travel, you get lonely, but so was I and I remained monogamous.... Even when it meant him moving me and our son far away from both of our families where I knew nobody and him having to take off for work 5 days later. You do what you have to when you love someone.... No matter how hard it may be!
There are NO excuses for being unfaithful. He made a choice to turn to someone else. If it has happened more than once, he will always be unfaithful and will always hide it from you.
You are worth more than that!!! You deserve better than that!!!
Don't accept his reasonings!!! You can't justify an affair!!!
Female, >50 years, Married, GA, US | May 23, 2012
Female, >50 years, Married, GA, US | May 23, 2012
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May be more hair. And it's coming soon=).
Her planning
Nothing!!! Honestly, when your in a relationship, your also in a relationship with their bad habits and good habits!! Why change the person you fell in love with?!?
So I accept him just the way he is :) yay!
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | May 14, 2012
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | May 14, 2012
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I would change the way he handles anger....he goes from 0 to 60 in less than a second when he's mad. It makes me worried sometimes because we want to build a life, get married and have children. I can't have the father of my children get angry like that because when you have children you need to be patient and not lose your cool in front of them
Stop the relationship now. That kind of behavior only gets worse, never better.
GET OUT NOW!!!
HE WILL NOT CHANGE!!!!!
Female, >50 years, Married, GA, US | May 23, 2012
Female, >50 years, Married, GA, US | May 23, 2012
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His job
His relationship with his parents. He needs to cut the umbilical cord. He lets them control his life and it causes a lot of conflict between us.
This will NEVER change! If he won't stand up to them, or even see his relationship with them is a problem he will never change.
Keep dating other people! You will find someone who will make you the priority above all others!!
This will only get worse!!
Female, >50 years, Married, GA, US | May 23, 2012
Female, >50 years, Married, GA, US | May 23, 2012
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His temper:/when he is angry,he gets ANGRY.
Stop the relationship now. That kind of behavior only gets worse, never better.
GET OUT NOW!!!
HE WILL NOT CHANGE!!!!!
Female, >50 years, Married, GA, US | May 23, 2012
Female, >50 years, Married, GA, US | May 23, 2012
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His anger. He gets mad so easy and screams and throws things.
Stop the relationship now. That kind of behavior only gets worse, never better.
HE WILL NOT CHANGE.
Female, >50 years, Married, GA, US | May 23, 2012
Female, >50 years, Married, GA, US | May 23, 2012
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Nothing I love her the way she is she is a natural woman love that about her
Would change anything per say but I would like. Her to get me and respect my feelings more
I will do better baby. Be patient with me.
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | May 23, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | May 23, 2012
Patience is the only way love to get through both good and bad times
Male, 41-50 years, Dating | May 23, 2012
Male, 41-50 years, Dating | May 23, 2012
Of course, patience is the best tool to get through good and bad times.
Male, 41-50 years, Dating | May 23, 2012
Male, 41-50 years, Dating | May 23, 2012
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Female, 41-50 years, Dating | May 23, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | May 23, 2012
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