Icebreakers
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Was it love at first sight for you? And if not love, then what?
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Honestly, loving my wife sneaked up on me. Mainly because we met when I was just 17, so I wasn't looking for love. I was looking for a girlfriend, though, and she was super fun and smoking hot, and she still is!
I wouldn't say at first sight but, our first date I definitely had the feeling that he might be my lobster ;)
It wasn't. I do remember when though. We went out for drinks down on Flagler Ave and sang some karaoke. After we walked down to the beach near where we were parked and I was showing her an app that mapped the stars. Something just came over me at that point, can't explain it really; but I knew she was the one :)
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, FL, US | Jan 15, 2014
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, FL, US | Jan 15, 2014
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I didn't even need to see her once ;)
I was very attracted physically and mentally right from the start. After our first few dates, my good friend asked about how I felt. I replied "He's a really awesome guy. But he's still so shy. I'll probably end up married to him."
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It was definitely LUST at first sight. I did everything you aren't supposed to do and slept with him right away! But here we are almost 6 years later, and I'm more in love with him with each passing day.
Yes - although it first came across as being baffled that he wasn't standing alongside his very calm & happy soulmate. Bewilderment that he didnt have people bustling around his home eager to be with his company, curious that he seemed so familiar & exciting because I didn't expect what wasn't already ... & this position remains true.
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I was definitely physically attracted. "She was my first..." redhead! "You motor boat'n son of a bitch"
I fell "in love" after I got to know her and her family. Also, on the cruise when I came out of the stall and said, "go check out those tread marks" and she responded, "you should've seen mine."
I fell "in love" after I got to know her and her family. Also, on the cruise when I came out of the stall and said, "go check out those tread marks" and she responded, "you should've seen mine."
Not really. I liked her from the start but my feelings gradually increased as we continued to see each other (though it didn't take long for me to really fall for her :D)
No he is cute but my first impression and still my goal is to make him happy. Either as his best friend or his wife... :)
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Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Nov 12, 2013
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Nov 12, 2013
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It was definitely physical attraction at first sight. I knew I wanted him!!
Haha it wasn't love at first sight but I definitely liked him the first time I met him
Does a blind man have love at first sight? Would it be love at first touch or hear then? I think we can love a lot of people on varying degrees of intensity, or importance in our minds eye. So maybe it's love at first idealization.
I was attracted physically and mentally for sure after we met few times :3
