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What makes the best present: something useful, or a big surprise?
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Shoes, clothes, something that person needs, and something special from the heart
BIG surprise like my BFD!!!
Any present is great. Useful is nice but, a big surprise really shows that she was listening to me about something I would like to have.
Something useful ....
Normally useful cause I try to be practical about our spending, but I do love lil surprises he does for me!
I get more aggravated than excited with surprises. So I guess useful.
I don't like surprises.
Male, 36-40 years, Engaged, GA, US | Jun 30, 2012
Male, 36-40 years, Engaged, GA, US | Jun 30, 2012
:) no you haven't. Surprises are ok. I always like what you give me :)
Male, 36-40 years, Engaged, GA, US | Jul 01, 2012
Male, 36-40 years, Engaged, GA, US | Jul 01, 2012
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Both are good, but I prefer a big surprise.
YAH!!! Such as a chic leopard-print swivel chair! A case of wine! A surprise shopping trip to another city! That gorgeous red Cadillac! But really the biggest gift is useful yet continues to surprise me and that is his inner strength, his masculine energy, and the force of his love. XO
My wife is beautiful, exciting, and full of life. It is fun to surprise her with gifts! I love your answer!
Male, >50 years, Married, KS, US | Jul 02, 2012
Male, >50 years, Married, KS, US | Jul 02, 2012
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Something that is a useful surprise. I never expect my gf to get me anything, and usually I prefer she save her money for something else, but whenever I get something from her i always love it. And usually its useful and a surprise
Something Useful :)
Anything from him is worth it(:
Something well thought out and personal. I'd much rather have a poem, letter or something similar than flowers or candy
At the time in my life- surprise
Both! And from the heart
Well for me. It's something useful. For her. It's a surprise!
But it doesn't take much to surprise her. She's so wonderful. All I'd have to do is show up at her job and it's a big thing. She so cute. I miss her:(
But it doesn't take much to surprise her. She's so wonderful. All I'd have to do is show up at her job and it's a big thing. She so cute. I miss her:(
