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What is something you take for granted about your partner, but know you shouldn't?
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She is the family planner, and I take it for granted that she always will be. I believe she likes the role and probably wouldn't want to surrender it completely, but I rarely help her with family plans without being asked...and sometimes not even then.
All the cleaning she does.
Que siempre quiere joderme la vida
His patience. He is incredibly patient. This is something I wish I was, and that I look up to a lot in him.
Her staying by my side and loving me.
His eagerness to touch me all day long Lol I love when he shows me affection , so not complaining
I took for granted her love of dance and music. I took for granted her always being there for me. I'm not doing that any longer. I'm sure there are things I don't recognize that I should but I'm getting better at it.
I honestly don't think I take anything for granted. I am so aware of how bad marriage can be, and how lucky I am to have my husband. My hysband truly is the kindest, most loving man I have ever known. Thank you hon, for being a wonderful husband! I love you! If I do take anything for granted please let me know!!!
I try to never take anything about her for granted.
You don't take me for granted! You are the most wonderful man in the world and I feel so loved! I am completely grateful for you too! I think this is one of our greatest strengths as a couple! We don't take each other for granted! :-)
Female, >50 years, Married | Mar 26, 2014
Female, >50 years, Married | Mar 26, 2014
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I don't know. Not sure I take anything for granted. Well I do. It would her patience with me and my lack of sex drive.
His trust for me. It's something I always felt I have earned but have come to realize its what he's given to me because he loves me.
That she can hurt like anyone else. Since I never or would never go out of my to intentionally hurt her, sometimes I don't think about it enough that I may accidentally hurt her feelings without really knowing I did.
Male, 26-30 years, Married | Sep 16, 2014
Male, 26-30 years, Married | Sep 16, 2014
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His patience and lack of retaliation when something goes wrong?
How much he still loves me even though I've fucked up so much.
Sometimes I take his kindness for granted but not on purpose. During fights when he's still being sweet and there for me trying to work it out and I ignore him I feel bad after...just my emotions make me so selfish and cold towards him when I'm upset or mad or annoyed etc. 😞
Idk i dont think i really take her for granted
