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Do you believe in fate, or do you believe you create your own destiny?
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it has to be both, surely?
I believe that we create our destiny. I have recently learned the power of choice. I now have faith in myself to choose the path to true happiness. I begin to create my destiny..
fate, with mult paths that you create
Ja anders kan je niet meer leven
Both. Fate leads you to your destiny.
Both. It's like if things are food it's fate but when they're not you have to create your destiny til it's fate again
i belive that god has a plan for everyone
I think, people make decisions and decide what they do on the daily. but I think everything happens for a reason. so I think it's a mixture of the two.
One is fated to one's own destiny...and destined to one's fate!
Some of both
Ummmmm it's a rare occasion for it to occur
Both
Create your own but sometimes things just happen and people just connect
Fate may play a part, but I'm not comfortable thinking some outside force is controlling my life.
I believe in fate. Fate brought us back to each other. We had nothing to do with that. If we did we wouldn't have been brain dead the first time around.
