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Do you tend to see things as black and white, or as shades of gray?
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It depends so I guess at times it can be black and white and others a gray.
shades of gray. there are two sides to every story.
I miss the black and white of my youth and smile at the grey I see today. If you only see two sides you are not moving around to all the positions and ideas available. Two is too small.
Gray
Black and white repaired with grey
i'm not really sure. i think i prefer color
Shades of grey for sure, I don't believe in extremes or absolutes.
Some things black and white, but the vast majority have shades of grey.
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, FL, US | Jan 25, 2012
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, FL, US | Jan 25, 2012
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Shades of grey - lots of grey
Things are black and white for sure. It's your ability to appreciate opposing opinions or decisions that strengthens your bonds with each other. If you keep an open mind the black and white will be what makes you love the most. Going out of your comfort zone and experiencing things you may otherwise have not considered to begin with.
Though black & white tends to be the right answer in some cases. Sometimes gray is the way to go. Without that, there will be a lot more arguments in a relationship than you'd like. I see gray as as "Compromise". Black and white is the opposite of compromise. Of course, there are cases, as I mentioned that are black and white, but not always.
definitely gray, lots of shades of gray
Either depending on how I feel: mellow or tense, calm or belligerent.
Shades of gray
There are always gray areas.
More black and white but she puts color inside of my life
