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Do you tend to see things as black and white, or as shades of gray?
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i'm in all levels of gray, my gf is a fan of black and sometimes pure white. she has no idea what gray means.
there are few black and white answers, one must balance most all things in terms of shades of one or the other
A rainbow!
BLACK
jajajaa...My boyfriend says i see b-l-a-c-k only
Black and white. I see things in extremes
Shades of gray.
Obviously it depends on the thing, but I think the older I get, the more I see things as black and white. I think it also depends on my mood/what else is going on work/relationship/etc-wise. Maybe it's a temporary thing. Hopefully. It's nicer to see things as grey.
shades of gray
I see things in color, actually.
Black and white. Def a right or wrong type person
I definitely see things as shades of grey, but my boyfriend is much more black and white! It's led to some agreements but that's ok :P
shades of gray
definitely shades of gray
used to be black and white but the older I get the more I realize it's shades of gray.
Female, >50 years, Married, VT, US | Aug 21, 2011
Female, >50 years, Married, VT, US | Aug 21, 2011
Um, I'm sorry honey, but I almost fainted with shock at your answer. Are you kidding? You are the most black and white person I think I have ever met!! What about the salsa argument??
Female, >50 years, Married, VT, US | Aug 23, 2011
Female, >50 years, Married, VT, US | Aug 23, 2011
what does that have to do with black and white?
Male, >50 years, Married, VT, US | Aug 23, 2011
Male, >50 years, Married, VT, US | Aug 23, 2011
It wasn't black and white, so you therefore couldn't fathom coping with it at all.
Female, >50 years, Married, VT, US | Aug 24, 2011
Female, >50 years, Married, VT, US | Aug 24, 2011
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Female, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US | Sep 05, 2011
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