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What is the most thoughtful thing your partner has ever done for you?
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my surprise birthday trip to New York... I had no clue until we were at the airport and he handed me my ticket! my partner is the most amazing!
So so many thing, but one thing that actually made me cry with joy; is when I briefly mentioned I love forts, and when I went over to his in a couple of hours, he built me a huge beautiful fort with bedsheets.
He had done so many but the one that comes to mind is when he sent a huge bouquet of red roses to my work. Not because of anything other than he just loves me. Also, it was a really tough time at work and it was a great pick me up.
the list is pretty endless, and i'm sure i've forgotten most of it. but she's always thinking of me. she knows what i like and surprises me regularly, is invested in knowing that i'm growing as a person and has helped me to overcome some of my less appealing traits. "love" is not a strong enough word to describe my feelings for her...
She Helped Me Recover From My Surgery. I Love Her
May 2012, close to Mother's Day, I went to your apartment to see you and you had your apartment all cleaned up and rearranged and tulips for me sitting on the center of ur couch. That was very very sweet. I'll never forget it or how it made me feel. what makes it even better is I planted them at moms and they came up this year ... a yearly reminder of a good thing :) thank you jas..
HE does thoughtful things for me every day, but most recently he bought me a beautiful house and filled it with new appliances. What gal wouldn't like that?
Ordering beer and snacks to my room in Vegas on my Bachelor Party, while simultaneously letting me believe she had ordered a stripper...
She loves me!
She loves me!
I appreciate when he calls and checks on me or sends me emails about things to remind me to be careful out in this crazy ass world. It lets me know he cares. I also recall a night when I came home from work and he was on nights. He was asleep upstairs but on our kitchen dinette table was a beautiful dozen roses, and a card......just because! I also remember after our first night together, he sent me roses to work. so sweet!
There are many thoughtful things...... She always thinks of me!.... a surprise birthday party, a coffee waiting on my desk, even pushing me to be a better person....she thinks of me all the time and it shows.
My partner does lots of thoughtful things for me. I don't think one particular thing stands out.
He surprised me by planning out the whole day for my birthday. It was the most thoughtful thing anyone has ever done for me.
Stayed with me
Taken care of me in medically vulnerable moments.
took the laundry off the clothes horse without being asked!
