Icebreakers
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Turning on lights! He likes dark rooms and I love bright ones.
I was brought up believing that the way I perceived reality was the "right" way to perceive reality. No one else's experience was valid unless it agreed with mine.
I always needed the sound of music playing in the background to fall asleep but after we got married and moved in together I had to give it up because he hates it.
Complaining so much
Being spoiled. Talking loud. And of course my snippy attitude hah
Letting the dogs lick the dishes.
Probably my anxiety and lack of affection. All my mothers fault :)
My family is bilingual and we switch between languages mid sentence, back and forth. For her, it feels like we are excluding her but it's not intentional- we just don't even notice most of the time.
Not talking much.
Eating unhealthy food.
Being blamed and responsible for everyting and taking on way too much at an extremely early age
Probably when I am very quiet and don't know how to share what I am feeling or thinking
Uh, I have a tendency to leave gum in random places. On a Coke bottle lid, or in a paper towel... She doesn't like it.
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