I was always taught to not air dirty laundry, family matters are private no exception, this is the exact opposite of how she was raised, so it adds to our arguments when she feels the need to vent to someone and I can't understand why.

I hang my clothes in the closet the opposite direction than she likes. She also doesn't like my sporadic use of the windshield wipers.

Yelling between floors! ie) being in kitchen and shouting to someone in the basement!
Public displays of affection!!

Im not sure if there is anything he can't stand or not but if I had to guess what might bother him it would be that maybe I let my family off the hook sometimes just b/c they are family when he wouldn't no matter who they are.

it seems like a lot

Reusing my tea bags :))))) hahahah

Being on time :p

BAHAHAHA... crusty dragons hangin' out on the tissue paper next to the computer

I suppose it would be a certain style of harshness that frankly I think is mostly an East Coast thing that West Coast and Japanese people don't get. People on the East Coast can criticize without getting all sensitive about it. People in California have no sense of "game on"

Chewing my Pop! Surely I'm not the only one!

I'm not sure what she can't stand about me actually ... that's a good thing right? Haha ;-)

Eating with my mouth open ! (yuk)

My family has a cute inside joke where we cough out loud, like we are choking, when our glasses are empty...so whoever just stood up will get us a refill. It's cute and funny, and we get a good laugh out if it. We love to pamper each other in my family, so it's never seen in an annoying or rude way. We would get each others drink any day. My boyfriend HATES it! He thinks it is so rude and annoying... And just doesn't get the humor.

The way I load the dishwasher :)

Having o be part of the clean plate club.