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What is the first thing you notice when meeting someone new?
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Do they make eye contact? How engaged are they with those around them? Non-verbals tell so much about a person's self-confidence.
Eye contact. I read people by their eyes.
The smile. You can read a person's heart by their smile.
Male, >50 years, Dating, NY, US | May 07, 2014
Male, >50 years, Dating, NY, US | May 07, 2014
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Eyes. Always the eyes.
Body language
Hand shake and eye contact.
My gut feeling about their heart
Their shoes. Shoes say A LOT about a person.
Eye contact.
Eyes
Usually their face. I like faces. =D
Looks, personality it what I notice first.
I notice whether or not they laugh at what I'm saying, concededly enough. I like to think of myself as a witty person. Their reacts to the first few jokes I make around a person kind of bases my opinion of their personality and intelligence level.
Conceitedly*
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, Gay | May 09, 2014
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, Gay | May 09, 2014
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Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | May 09, 2014
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | May 09, 2014
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Eye contact
Their expressions while I speak to see if there actually interested in whatever I'm blabbing about
Posture/attitude then smile or lack of it.
