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Are you a saver or a spender? How about your partner?
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![Female, 31-35 years, Engaged](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I'm definately the saver. My partner is the spender
![Male, 31-35 years, Dating, SA, AU](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
I'm definitely the spender, though I'm trying harder to save.
![Male, 41-50 years, Married, UT, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Used to be a big spender, but now I'm not like that as much. Still like to spend a lot on my wife when I can though. Sometimes I still over spend.
![Female, 31-35 years, Dating, OH, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
With both have a savings mindset i just tend to spend more
![Female, >50 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I not sure what we are.
![Female, 31-35 years, Married, AL, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Saver. He's half and half.
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
No sé, yo suelo ahorrar pero soy muy desprendido del dinero
![Female, 31-35 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I am the ultimate saver and he is the exact opposite. It drives me nuts but I know he thinks I'm way too cheap. We drive each other nuts when it comes to money ...
![Male, 36-40 years, Dating, NY, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Spender :( my partner is too. It's so hard not to be!!
![Female, >50 years, Married, Gay, IA, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Already answered
![Male, 31-35 years, Dating, VA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Saver but spend when I need to
![Male, 36-40 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
I am cheap as hell. She is getting better but what girl doesnt enjoy new shoes and clothes. Plus when she spends money on me i cant blame her. Shes my world
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I'm definatly a saver
![Female, 41-50 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I'm the saver he's the spender
![Male, 41-50 years, Engaged](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
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