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Is loving you tiring?

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Unfortunately I think it is. I have spent a lot of effort controlling my life instead of sharing it. I have insecurities and fears that I keep private and don't share with my partner. I always think I have to bear the weight and fix myself on my own instead of trusting my partner to be the one to help me. I think it's fear of rejection from my partner, but that has crowded out the space for him. I want to change this. I want loving me to be exciting and fun, I just hope it's not too late.

Probably. Is it?
It would be tiring for any one. Loving someone isn't easy
Female, 21-25 years, Dating | Oct 22, 2017

But for me in particular.
Male, 21-25 years, Dating | Oct 23, 2017

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ohhh si...

Fucks yea.... I make myself tired, so I know my Husband beyond tired!!

I make myself tired. I know he's beyond tired.

No lo es, lo cansante para mi es tratar de buscar algo en ti que no es parte de tu aunque trates de aparentarlo
Cómo que?
Female, 26-30 years, Engaged, FL, US | Aug 25, 2017

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nunca me cansaria creo

Yes. I mean, really loving me, is tiring. I need to do 1000 things at a time, and to do them well because I am a perfectionist. I am also very independent and don't like to stay put too long. So if you want to follow my pace, I am tiring. I need to be carefully constrained, which is very difficult because too much would make me sad. Jessica knows that and she tries to adjust to it, just as I try to give as much love I can to her. She needs to feel loved and I try to never let her down.
Maybe ur letting er down?
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Aug 13, 2016

Ahah. Thank you for your concern ;). I know my fiance sounds like he is over busy and has no time left for me. Might be because he is not used to talk in public about his sentiments toward me which makes him looks cold. But he is right, he never lets me down :). Wouldn't marry him if not!
Female, 26-30 years, Engaged | Aug 26, 2016

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Unlike the rest of our body muscles, heart expands and contracts, non-stop, all day and all night for all our lives without a break.
Looking at the screen for too long might be tiring, but my presence is more soothing, so exhaustion is nowhere in the scene.
Kissing for 58 hours, 35 minutes, 59 seconds might be tiring though, after all you can't escape from hard work in the end.

pues si lo canse

Hahahahaha' YES!
Good thing he is patient with me and he loves me :)

Loving him is not tired. I don't know if loving me it's tiring. I believe yes. It is?
Male, 21-25 years, Dating | Dec 17, 2017

I know. I'm sorry
Female, 21-25 years, Dating | Dec 19, 2017

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yes? ask her haha


Yeah, I'm annoying

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