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Icebreakers
Find out what's on your partner's mind, share what's on yours, and get insights from other couples. We ask what you might not think to.
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Do you think it's more important for a couple to be friends or lovers?
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![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Friends
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Friends
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Lovers. I think being friends is good, but I don't think it's healthy to have a person represent everything for the other person, distance and other friends are required too.
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
To be lovers
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
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![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Friends
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Friends
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
I think iboth are off equal importance as you can have many friends and many lovers but once you find someone whom you love that is as your best friend than that is a truly magical feeling
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
I think they have to be friends
![Female, 31-35 years, Married, FL, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Friends
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Friends
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Yes
![Female, 31-35 years, Dating, WA, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Both
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
friends
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Lovers