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Do you watch porn without your partner? Do you watch it with them? Why or why not?
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We have watched it together a few times, and it's been fun. But lately we've made our own, and I enjoy watching her on film much more than real porn.
I've probably watched more without my wife than with her. We watched some together when we were dating but not much of any since. Kind of difficult to do with two young kids. I would like to watch some with her...I think it would be a nice form of foreplay or inspiration.
Both...when we watch it, we are usually laughing
Yes and no. Idk.
no never without my partner and i hope he doesn't either. I don't mind watching it together at all
I like to watch it with her. I haven't watched it without her for a long time.
Male, >50 years, Married, IA, US | Feb 18, 2013
Male, >50 years, Married, IA, US | Feb 18, 2013
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Both! Pornstars are the real hero's of the world
I don't watch porn without him, it's just not my thing. We have watched it together though to spice things up. I have no problems with porn and if it turns me on too then I'm all for it!
Con y sin ella.. me encanta que también lo vea conmigo y se prenda. .. es lindo poder comaprtirlo! porque? porque me gusta mucho.. porque me gusta verla feliz y hacerla feliz.. porque me ayuda cuando stoy cansado o stressado.. y weno.. porque finalmente es parte del amourssssss .. eso sta lindo.
de las mujeres y su belleza soy fan .. pero me hace feliz poder compartirlo CON LA MUJER de mi vida! y que me deja ser y hasta lo valora!
eso no tiene precio..
por eso me caso. Punto! :D
te amo s
de las mujeres y su belleza soy fan .. pero me hace feliz poder compartirlo CON LA MUJER de mi vida! y que me deja ser y hasta lo valora!
eso no tiene precio..
por eso me caso. Punto! :D
te amo s
We've watched it together. It was kinda hot. But honestly I watch more without her.
I haven't watched without her in a long time. I do enjoy watching with her it can lead to some fun times!
Want to with her
We havent but i would for fun and laughs, but i personally think it would be better if we made our own ;)
Nope
I do both , just depends on my mood and his
I do watch it alone when stressed or in the mood. Ive watched it with him but its not the same. Prob because the porn weve seen is much different than the ones I like when alone. I could watch it w/ him but its not as intimate as it should be. Its a distraction, and brings out all types of insecurities, bc I know he thinks the girl on tv is hot and when he looks to the girl he actually has: me, is nothing like the one hes being turned on by the tv. So I rather not watch it with him.
your time with ur partner should be the MOST intimate time outside of anything else. if something else takes its place because of insecurities, then maybe it's time for a discussion with the one u love. he choose u for a reason let him know how u want to be vulnerable with him the way u are when ur alone and take baby steps to make it happen. sometimes confidence comes off as more sexy to men than any of the flaws we may have. I have 4 kids so I know all about insecurities.
Female, 41-50 years, Married | Feb 21, 2013
Female, 41-50 years, Married | Feb 21, 2013
Awh thank you so much! I know you are totally right and it is something I have to work on. Its real weird because Ive always been confident with all my previous partners, but with him I feel so self conscious and its real hard to let go. :/ it all happened when he made a comment about my weight. After that, it totally changed me and how I feel when around him.
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 21, 2013
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 21, 2013
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