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no, i'd rather watch it with her if anything
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Yes, but not very often anymore. I'm sure we could watch it together and I'm surprised we haven't; but I'm also sort of glad we haven't.
Why are you kinda glad we haven't?
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Feb 04, 2013
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Feb 04, 2013
People sometimes get sucked in and they start relying on it, the sex might get freakier, but it becomes impossible to be turned on or get off without something extreme. We don't need anything. Of course my explanation was to the extreme. But you get it, I think.
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, MO, US | Feb 04, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, MO, US | Feb 04, 2013
I agree <3 wholeheartedly
I'm not against porn in general but it feels sleazy and gross when I watch it now. It doesn't really turn me on anymore and so much of our sex life is based on our passion and love that porn seems to degrade the purity of what we have.
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Feb 04, 2013
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Feb 04, 2013
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No and no. There's no place for it in a relationship.
I do when i'm alone but not as much now that I'm not working out of state. I would like to try watching it with her, she's loosened up since we first met and think it could be something that adds some spice once in a while.
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I don't think my wife would ever watch porn. She thinks I would compare her and the things she does to one of the porn stars. I wouldn't though because I know those girls are fake and my wife is the real deal... It's her I long for
I used to but not really anymore. But i think watching it with him could be kinda fun...idk how hed feel about it tho....?
Sure. I would love to watch it with her. Because porn brings people together. Or something.
Lmao sometimes with not too many times without. Adds more freakiness to our sex life I guess lol
Of course!!!!!
No I don't.
I don't have time to watch all the clean movies I want, let alone porn.
I don't have time to watch all the clean movies I want, let alone porn.
I'll find time for you baby!! HAHAHAHAH
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 06, 2013
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 06, 2013
okay baby! you find for me!
hahah!
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 06, 2013
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 06, 2013
Let me know when and where!! It's just minutes away!! Hahah!!
Or wanna make our own? HAHAHAHAH :P
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 06, 2013
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 06, 2013
will you be the lead actor then????
Cos then I'm in?
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 06, 2013
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 06, 2013
Of cos I am the lead actor lah!!!!
Enna qns is this!!!! -.-"
Stoopid qns by the way!! -.-"
We will be the lead role and no one else!!
So are you ready?
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 06, 2013
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 06, 2013
Not WE baby. It's YOU!!!!
YOU will be the leading actor not me!
It's not a stupid question okay! -.-
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 06, 2013
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 06, 2013
Then who am I gonna do the video with?
You don't wanna do it with me? )):
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 06, 2013
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 06, 2013
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I don't watch it without them, and we've never really watched it together. I get plenty turned on just by you so I think having it on in the background would just be a distraction from us focusing on our love and intimacy and lust for each other. Plus I'd probably feel insecure if there was a bunch if skinny big boobed hotties on.
without him, I'd like to watch it with him but for whatever reason I get the feeling he doesn't really want to which is okay too
I've never been to big on it, but if my girly ever wanted to go out to a sketchy video store with me and pick something up for the night, I'm sure we'd have a good time, whether it be sexy or funny (I'm looking at you cheesy movie parodies) ;D
