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Do you watch porn without your partner? Do you watch it with them? Why or why not?
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I have watched it before alone and it almost ended our 5 yr relationship. It made her feel like she wasn't good enough.... she couldn't have been more wrong. It only made me appreciate her all the more all while giving me some new ideas to try also to which she is not very open to. However I do see how it could make her upset and I love her and don't want to loose her so I currently do not watch it.
Yes, and almost never. If we're together, we have better erotic options than watching someone _else_ get it on.
no, nunca
Mainly alone. She doesn't like porn
yes, yes, why not
No. It's not my thing.
Even that though can be a little awkward because I don't know how you would feel about me satisfying myself to imagines of you. I know you don't want to be with me sexually/intimately. So it does feel a little wierd fantasizing about us being together in that way. I feel it does help me stay true to you and not send my mind and fill it with lustful thoughts for others.
This thing sucks. It didn't post the whole thing. Only the last half..... Sigh* I'll try to fix it
Male, 41-50 years, Married | Jan 28, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Married | Jan 28, 2013
I don't watch porn in general. I have in the past and it made me feel terrible. I felt guilty and disconnected from. I feel it is a form of cheating and disrespectful to you. When I do feel the need I use thoughts of us together in the past or pics you sent me and boudoir calendar.
Male, 41-50 years, Married | Jan 28, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Married | Jan 28, 2013
"And not send my mind drifting" is what that's supposed to say.
Male, 41-50 years, Married | Jan 29, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Married | Jan 29, 2013
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I don't watch it alone /with him. I have issues &he knows that, but while I was trying to care of our brand new high needs baby alone he was outside beating off to ass porn that he'd hidden....so now I can't trust him &continually wonder where &when he's doing it! It feels like a stitched up wound being sand blasted open every time I think about it, but since he disrespected me &outright ignoring how I felt even though I told him I know he could give less of a shit about now!
I have but don't make it a habit and she usually has dreams about me cheating when I do it so she always knows. And no she and I don't look at it together. She feels its degrading. Makes her feel like a slut. Although I don't think she is a slut I don't wanna disrespect my wife if she feels that way. We doing fine without it
We haven't done it, but I would be open to it lol.
I watch porn with and without my partner. I watch it with her because it makes us both feel sexy and it turns us on. I watch it without her usually because she's not home and because it's exciting to watch.
I didn't know you watch porn without me.
Female, 41-50 years, Married, MS, US | Jan 28, 2013
Female, 41-50 years, Married, MS, US | Jan 28, 2013
I'm trying to learn a thing or two ;)
Male, 41-50 years, Married, MS, US | Jan 28, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Married, MS, US | Jan 28, 2013
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Yes I watch porn without him sometimes but not too frequently. Maybe once a month. I would like to watch with him to try some new things but he doesn't want to. He watches porn without me, and that's okay as long as its not too much so that he becomes addicted. I think it's normal to watch, but not to pay for it or adopt higher ideals because of it.
I'd be open to it. But I think we should make our own ;)
No and no.
It's been a while for either. It's something we should put back on the schedule.
