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How do you feel about your partner having a best friend of the gender they are attracted to?


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It's fine.


He does have a best friend of the opposite sex and its ME :). First of all, if it wasn't me then its not the relationship I desire and pretty sure he would say the same.


I don't deal with it very good


Didn't like it but what could I do? She almost kicked me out :/


I'm not sure.


It wouldnt bother me, im secure in my relationship. Besides, I would mark my territory first time i met him. Its a guy thing.


Hmmm. That best friend, sure as heck better be me.


As far as I know u am her best friend, but we do have a lot of trust for each other so it would be ok.


I some what have a problem with it because I believe if a man is just friends with a female that somebody is thinking sexual thoughts about the other person or vice versa..but I'm learning that those things don't matter because if your significant other decides they want to be with that other person then there's nothing you can do...so at the end of the day it's really up to the two people in that relationship...


This is the hard one for me. My partner has always dated Guys & for the first time she is dating a female. From what i have found out with my fiance' every guy she has had around as a "friend" only wants in her pants in some way. Which she never can see. As for a female. She has female friends, I don't really believe she would be attracted to one, because i don't believe she is attracted to girls Which is hard to explain. In some way i think it is "Me" she is attracted to..


Don't like it


Idk she has a lot of male friends. Idk how I actually feel about it but regardless I just have to deal with it.


He told me his best friend was a girl don't know if that was a cover up at the time or not. I've only heard her name once or twice and a family member confirmed she did exist but I'm not bothered by it. I trust him.


If they were besties before I came along then I'm assuming I wouldn't have a worry, or I wouldn't have stuck around. ;0)


that best friend better be me
Lol completely agree
Female, 31-35 years, Dating | Oct 08, 2012

good =]
Male, 31-35 years, Dating | Oct 08, 2012

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