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How do you feel about your partner having a best friend of the gender they are attracted to?
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I'm okay with it, it's not like I feel like I have to compete or something.
As long as nothing is happening other than friendship between them,why not?! For me its ok,its normal
It's my ultimate desire to become the closest person to him more than any other friend he's had. I know there are other girls he's known way longer, but hopefully that will change the longer we know eachother (as far as knowing me a substantial period of time). Ultimately, as long as I'm the number one woman in his heart and mind, I'm okay.
Not a fan of that.
Hell no. He better get his life in order
dont like it jajaja but oh well
It's cool
I have no prob but she as already have to kno this person for years not wit that new shit
I accept it. Friends are friends and should be kept that way...
No way. This is never a good idea. Sharing leads to caring.
I would feel comfy if I was also the other persons friend but being best friends with the opposite sex is like having another partner minus the sex, I mean having the person u are in a relationship with wont have any special bonds or connections because the friend will have them all
Well, Its my ultimate desire to become the closest person to him. I want to be closer to him than any friend he has ever had. But there are females friends In his life that's got years on me so I would want to change that. I'd want to meet them though but Ultimately as long as I am the número uno women in his heart and mind Im good.
I think I'd be ok with it...? I'm working on completely trusting woman especially with a male best friend but I'm really open with u. It could work (but idk...? Some of ur friends worry me I can't lie lol)
Male, 41-50 years, Dating | Oct 05, 2012
Male, 41-50 years, Dating | Oct 05, 2012
What do you think about how I feel about you having female friends?
As for what you said you don't have to worry. I don't have any male friends that i am really close to anymore with the exception of my co-workers ( ones married and ones gay) besides I think I've spent enough time and energy giving undeserving people my attention so now it's reserved solely for you baby. I love you and can't wait to deepen our friendship.
BTW I don't expect you to be like me ... I trust you 100%
Female, <20 years, Dating, GA, US | Oct 05, 2012
Female, <20 years, Dating, GA, US | Oct 05, 2012
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Not so much, it always seems to have tension
Whatever man. I mean, I'm attracted to all genders, so it seems like it'd be kinda wrong for me to have an issue with it. I'm secure enough.
I wud hope im his best friend thats a girl
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, Bi | Oct 07, 2012