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What do you do when you want to relax? How can you best help your partner to relax?


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When I want to relax, I like to take a hot bath and listen to music. Being outside is also relaxing to me, so sometimes I lay in my hammock or go take pictures.


Get a nice oiled massage from my girl, ahhhh so nice 😩
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Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Jan 18, 2016

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I put on comfy clothes and lay down. He typically does not need help relaxing. But I could rub his shoulders if they are not too sore.


Giving massages, relaxing and watching tv shows


When we snuggle and rub each other's backs


I play games , i tell her jokes


Spooning with him in bed watching a movie. His choice. I will probably doze off anyway :)


It depends. Sometimes watch TV, play the piano, cook or sleep. By reminding them to breath and rubbing his head and holding him until all the tension relaxes out of his body.


Try to have a release and do the same for my partner and also listen to R&B music and relax in bed while my partner rubs my head and I curl up on them 😊
All that is true (not always the R&B part). Also for me: playing the piano. And rubbing his hair
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Feb 17, 2015

😘😘no R&B for you yet, but give it time😊😘😘😍😚😊love you to pieces
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Feb 17, 2015

I'll get there! πŸ˜€πŸ˜€
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Feb 17, 2015

I know babe and I also enjoy listening to you play πŸ˜ƒ
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Feb 17, 2015

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I just lay in my bed and do nothing. Back rubs and video games for him.


I sleep and watch my favorite movies /shows


Take a nap with her. That always makes me relax. That or just lying down with her and not having to say anything


It's boring but zoning out to TV and having a mind break relaxes me more then most other things nowadays. For my partner it may be the same... Also, anytime away from our children feels very relaxing.


Just lay down or sleep. Cuddle meeeee. 😍


Read or go for a hike watch a movie but most of all hold my wife's hand.
Helping her around the house so she doesn't have so much work to do and can rest a bit.



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