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I would like my waistline to grow smaller so maybe my wife would find me more attractive
more time together...
Soo many ways.
I wanted to grow closer, be more open and loving. Instead found out he's been living his own life and I am just a very small part of it. It seems he is a me-me-me person and I am a we-we-we person. Neither of us are wrong just too different. (Part 1 of 2 from Suka to Vlastnik)
I want for each of us to put the other first. You know do into others as you would have them do unto you. He has been on his own so long that he sees everyone as an enemy and feels he must always take care of himself because no one else will. But that is not the case but he can't overcome the me against the world mentality to let me in and love me back. (Part 2 of 2 from Suka to Vlastnik)
Female, >50 years, Dating, TX, US | May 30, 2013
Female, >50 years, Dating, TX, US | May 30, 2013
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We are super close already, but would like to "experiment" more. You know what I mean my love. ;P
I would like to have open lines of communications and build better trust, learn to love my husband and please him in every way imaginable... I jus want us to be happy
I'd like more time together, more patience with each other, and more of that 'spark' and fun we had when we first started going out. it's tough though now bc of our newborn..
I would like to see each other more and spend lots alone time together. We need a romance booster shot so we can reconnect . The long distance really took a till in us this year, and with a kid, alone time is limited.
Find a way to help her, in a way she can receive (which usually involved not appearing to try to help).
I would like to help more around the house... Even though I help lots now!! ;)
All kidding aside, she does lots and I totally appreciate her for that and would never want it to become where I take her for granted, so I need to help more around the house.
All kidding aside, she does lots and I totally appreciate her for that and would never want it to become where I take her for granted, so I need to help more around the house.
Try an activity together-Yoga (as he suggested) maybe?
Better communication, more experiences, less arguing, and more friendship.
I want to grow close and experiment more
The next year of our relationship is going to be radically different from the last one, given that we're transitioning from being thousands of miles away to living in a tiny apartment together. So I want us to experience the things that we haven't had the chance to yet. I want us to grow with each other, rediscover some of the romance we've been having trouble creating, and become comfortable and happy with sharing our lives.
I would like to learn to give her what she asks for WHEN she asks for it. Be it cleaning up my constant piles of crap, being more enthusiastic about going out and doing things or breaking some of my habits that are less than attractive.
