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I'd like to get back to the way we were, I'd love to be able to "renew" our vows on our anniversary this year and start a new chapter in a better place.
Spend more time discovering and supporting her dreams. Be more subtle when it comes to sensitive matters and try my best not to hurt or getting hurt myself.
I would like us to spend more actual time together, not in front of a TV. I would like us to be more affectionate and find ways in the simple day to day to show we care about each other.
I would like the population of my family to grow this year :)
I would like to learn to release my fear of being supported by someone else and allow myself to see it for what it is: I am a wife whose currently helping support my husbands career, a career which gives me the freedom to be at home more.
Female, 41-50 years, Married, MS, US | May 31, 2013
Female, 41-50 years, Married, MS, US | May 31, 2013
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I'd love to have a great anniversary and then try to get back to our old selves. He's very busy this summer and I'm really not, but I can't wait to just be able to spend some time together this summer, and then get together as much as we can once we're both back at our respective colleges. I hope 2013 will continue and end on a happy note :)
Better communication and find something to do for fun that we BOTH like to do.
our relationship is going to be radically different from the last one, given that we're transitioning from being thousands of miles away, having no children in the house and moving. We will final get a brake from the stress and strain that has been our life for 17 years. We get to experience the things that we haven't had the chance to yet. grow with each other, rediscover romance we've been having trouble creating, and become comfortable and happy with sharing our lives.
I just want us to be okay :'( at least still together. This whole thing is too much for me to handle..
I don't wanna mess up this time. I want to make things work and make our relationship stronger.
I wish to deepen our commitment and to expand our communication, two trees reaching in and down, and up and out. I love you darling one, from root to leaf.
I feel we would benefit greatly from learning to communicate with each other more !
I would like us to finally be able to relax and enjoying just being together, alone at last. I'd also like our relationship to get to the point where we don't have communication issues that lead to fights. I love her so much, and the disagreements are our only real detraction.
Enjoy our time together and do more fun stuff together like cycling.
I would like us to strengthen our relationship with God and I think everything else will follow that
I would like for us to be even better friends, to support each other and push one another to reach our goals, and be a happy active couple. <3
