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I would like for us to really connect deep down. And get to know eachother and gain much more understanding of eachother. Also to spend more quality time together.
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I'd like is to have better and consistent communication and intimacy.
Me gustaria crecer compartiendo mas tiempo juntos, compartir mas esos momentos que son para mi muy especiales, conocer mas y mas a Ella en todos Los sentidos :)
I can't wait to share those moments with you! This year, I look forward to getting to know you more, learning how to love you and teaching you how to love me, and learning how we best compliment each other so that together we can be stronger and go farther :)
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Apr 03, 2014
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Apr 03, 2014
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Spend more time together as we can... Travel beyond his home or mine
I want us to just be together emotionally more often this year. He says we've been "out of sync" lately, I think its because 2013 was just such a hard year for us... but being back in sync, empathizing, remembering that we're a team and we're on the same side is important for us to grow together.
I would like to really talk about our likes/dislikes and ensure we have open communication without judging one another, really listen and work on a better way to communicate. I would also like to talk and grow sexually. Maybe do different things and talk about turn ons and offs. Sex is a large part of a relationship so we should grow in that area. Overall, this year I would like to come together and improve our communication and how I can help ease your days.
Having open communication without judgement sounds like a good starting point. I don't want us to fight over trivial little things due to the way we communicate. We often misinterpret each other due to our communication styles. U can be unknowingly sarcastic and passive aggressive and then I get defensive and retaliate. It's a pattern.
We can definitely talk about our sexual turn ons and turn offs and I am up to trying new things as well :) I know it doesn't happen very often nowadays which can be frustrating so maybe we can figure out something there as well. I like sneaking into the closet sometimes when Ethan is watching a show, we just need to make sure he doesn't get hurt by himself.
This is a great way for us to know each other better too. Starting a dialogue is important to stay connected to each other. I love you deeply and would hate for you to feel anything less than that due to lack of sex and communication.
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Apr 09, 2014
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Apr 09, 2014
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Emotionally and financially
An inch or two would be wonderful
I really just want us to work on our trust issues with one another. The past year was the hardest year we've had relationship wise and in a very personal way as well and there's been a lot of fights and tears and mistakes made. But I want us to grow from it and I want to fix the mistakes I've made the best I can because I love her and she deserves the best, I will try my hardest to give her that.
more traveling together.
Better communication.
Be more present in everything; listen fully and be in the moment.
Hopefully the house gets done so we can start the next chapter in our lives together
Relax and enjoy one another and make another baby.
