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I would like to take solid steps to growing our relationship with God, together. Taking the time to pray together and to read the bible, and most likely a book relating to couples going into marriage. I want to make mutual trust a huge priority, and to personally hold myself to a high standard of treatment of you. I want to be honest and open with you. And at the end of the day, I simply want to build into your life. I want to lead as God leads me. I want to make you happy.
move to england and move in together :)
I would like to build more on our communication. we have been doing great and I would like to keep it going. I would also like to find more time for intimacy and the quiet time together. it's hard to always make time for the little things in our busy lives but it's something I would like to start making a priority.
I would like to get to know each other better and become closer than we already are. If that is possible. I will try to take extra time for you. :) love you :)
I'd like to grow in our relationship by learning to communicate better, become financially stable, and spend more "quality" time together outside the house rather than sitting around not talking. I want to interact more. I want more intimate conversation.
I would really like our communication to be more fluid. Also have closeness, because I miss that. Even thought we are together I do not feel that connection. I also would like to have more excitement. I would like to learn to communicate better and learn to calm down when I am angry or hurt at him. I would also like to love him more.
I would like to put eachother first, have fun no matter what, appreciate eachother ... Oh yeah and get married!
Spending actual time together
I want to grow closer and more intimate this year, in order for us to understand each other better. I'd like to start the steps to set up for our family and for us to start takin baby steps towards settling down.
Make time to do new things and hobbies together. Having that quality time is fun and let's you learn more about each other.
I want to rebuild our trust and mutual respect for each other, learn to communicate (listen, hear and speak) more effectively (avoid making accusations, placing blame, or insults) and not only manage our finances better but set realistic goals for our future while still setting aside time to enjoy today. Take initiative and help get things done to allow for more stress free quality time together! Motivate and work towards a healthy and fit lifestyle
I would like to rebuild the closeness and trust we once had. We used tto find comfort in one another and I think over the last few years that has faded. I would like us to take time out a few times a month and really see each other and feel each other. We are so busy all the time that I feel like we pass each other by sometimes in the busyness. I would also like to work on communicating better on my side when it comes to how I am feeling and when I am angry.
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Trust! Trust! Trust! Belief in our journey together in that the road may not always be smooth but we will always have the support of each other to rely on. To come together as one and do away with you, me, yours, mine and speak more of we, us, ours.
I would like to better understand ourselves in order to better communicate our own needs/feelings/fears/desires etc.Its easy to focus more on the other person, it takes a lot of the responsibility off ourselves.
