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Would you rather grow old with someone you "settled" for, or be alone when you are older because you didn't find true love?
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Grow old and settle than be alone
Oh hard one, if you settle you have done yourself a huge injustice for not holding out, if your alone you may have had to high of expectations and not took the time to get to know people. Oh that's a real tough one
Alone
Thank God He has put us together. No settling needed. Happily ever after. I love you!
Male, 41-50 years, Married, NC, US | Aug 26, 2012
Male, 41-50 years, Married, NC, US | Aug 26, 2012
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Why would one settle for something in life?
I'd choose being alone at the end if I had the kind of love I have now!!!
I'd choose being alone at the end if I had the kind of love I have now!!!
Be alone and happy vs settled and unhappy!
No one should just settle but you should also be realistic in your expectations. I definitly haven't settled. I love my baby and She loves me too... Without all that settling crap.. I hope:)
Male, 26-30 years, Married, MO, US | Sep 24, 2012
Male, 26-30 years, Married, MO, US | Sep 24, 2012
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I'd rather be alone and independent then settle for someone for the sake of being with someone
Settle
Be alone when I am older because I didn't find true love.
die with someone sttled, if i settled for that person, it cause theyre ok, I didnt find THE one, but Im happy and comfortable with that person, bu dying alone is something I dont want
Settle for the one you love and you'll never be alone
Grow old. Im settled. Cuz i found the one
I'm not "settling"; I'm growing to grow old with somebody I truly love. :) <3
1st option.2nd option just ment you didn't take the time to get to know somone well enough to get to tht point.i rather be happy and in love an share my life with somone then be a lone wolf,they are filthy animals an dc about anyone or anything.lol
I'd be alone. I don't settle.
