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Would you rather grow old with someone you "settled" for, or be alone when you are older because you didn't find true love?
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If its not true love, then I would rather be alone. Settling for less than what you truly deserve only leads to resentment & hatred.
i would settle who's to say that in time they might eventually b the love of ur life
The latter unless that precludes having kids, because kids a) need to happen and b) make it worth it
I dun want to settle but I dun want to be alone when I'm old either. So try to love the one you're with, if it really doesn't work, have the guts to walk away
Found true love
Never settle...
I'm sure you can learn to love someone. But I don't know.
Be alone. I wouldn't want to settle. There is no point in wasting someone's time because you settled and will always have one foot out the door.
Be alone. I can always catch up on TV.
Be alone
Don't wanna be lonely so I'll settle
Be alone. I wanna grow old with someone I couldn't live without like my partner
Unless I can settle for a fancy vibrator, or a man with a chocolate penis that ejaculates money, I'd rather be alone.
Stupid question. Love is a choice, a verb. My wife is my true love because I have spent 15 years learning how to love her.
Definitely be alone. A marriage relationship is hard enough sometimes trying to meet the challenge of being the best spouse you can be for your mate. I can't imagine how hard it would be to "die to self" for someone you settled for. Thankfully, it's a moot point for me. I get to grow old with the love of my life. I don't have to make this choice for real.
