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Would you rather grow old with someone you "settled" for, or be alone when you are older because you didn't find true love?
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I'd rather be with someone so that I don't grow old by myself.
That's tough. I don't think I'd give up on trying to find true love, although I'm pretty sure I already have, until I was nearing senior citizen area...then I might settle or I might not. It all depends.
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Male, >50 years, Dating | Aug 12, 2011
Male, >50 years, Dating | Aug 12, 2011
Best answer I could think to give as well.
Female, 41-50 years, Engaged, Bi, FL, US | Aug 14, 2011
Female, 41-50 years, Engaged, Bi, FL, US | Aug 14, 2011
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Love is not a spark of firework. You nurture it, then it will grow.. I will rather settle with somebody.
I'd rather be alone (with friends and an out-of-wedlock child or two).
I would not be settling with someone just because I don't want to be alone ... So I guess my answer is the latter ... However with that said, not settling does not mean that everything has to be perfect and that I have to be 100% happy ... Not setting means there must be a reason why I want to be with someone ... Whatever that reason is, there is a common goal that we are working toward together.
Be alone
I'd love to grow old with true love and otherwise rather stay alone.
I wouldn't settle again, I learned that lesson the hard way.
I rather settle down with someone I am in love with than not in love with
I would rather be alone. I would wait for my soul mate to find me.
If I didn't find true love I would go at it alone, because I am a romantic type.
I have a hard time envisioning a life with someone I didn't love. I'm sure part of that is because I've been with someone I love for 16 years. How could I settle after that?
'Settled'.
Couldn't live knowing that I will die alone.
I don't want to be old and alone, but I don't want to settle also. I like to think positive, I know there will be another for me.