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Do you prefer to be intimate with the lights off, or on?
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Depends on my mood. Dim light is more romantic...but I'm game lights on or off :x
Either. Usually they are on or it's daylight and the windows are open.
Don't think it matters. I love her round butt and she loves my third chin. ;)
Third chin is a joke. I'm not overweight
Male, 36-40 years, Domestically Partnered | Mar 26, 2013
Male, 36-40 years, Domestically Partnered | Mar 26, 2013
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Usually I'll just leave it however it already is, though sometimes I'm more in the mood for one or the other.
Either, it depends on the mood I'm in really.
sometimes on sometimes off ...... love to watch her, she is so sexy but also love the dark intimate lovemaking that leads right in to sleep
Off
Either or. Off is more romantic. Or with candle light
Lights off because I enjoy being able to use my senses
I like both!
On buh he likes it off
When the lights are on I get to see his facial expressions and we can share a smile but I think I enjoy the lights off because then everything is a surprise and anticipation can build when you don't know what's coming next
On is great for spontaneous fun, but with the lights off it is more sensual. You can focus on your other senses and get in tune with them. Obviously touch for the soft skin a caresses, audial for hearing the soft or loud moans of your partner, taste for their sweet kisses and kisses on their body, and also when kissing and sucking everywhere you are in touch with her smell which can be even as intoxicating as feeling her body on yours.
Male, 41-50 years, Dating | Apr 05, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Dating | Apr 05, 2013
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Candlelight! Either/or
on but lowered. I wanna SEE my guy!
Lights on but very dim so I can see her eyes and sexy body.
