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Do you prefer to be intimate with the lights off, or on?
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Lights on, i love to see whats happening. She is so sexy to watch.
On. There are certain things I want to see them as they happen and the look on her face when they do.
I just like being intimate with him. I don't care if the lights are on or off. It's more about touch and connection. Our bodies together as one.
Female, >50 years, Dating, TX, US | Mar 16, 2013
Female, >50 years, Dating, TX, US | Mar 16, 2013
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Low light or no light - either is great for me!
ooh... this one is difficult... when I was younger, lights on.. Now... we are young in our relationship and I do not have as much confidence about my own physical self... so somewhere in the middle? Some light? I like to see your face as I can see you enjoy in particular looking at my breasts and I love that!
Lights must b on. I love to watch her and see all the beauty she has. I love my wife very much
I like the lights on
Female, >50 years, Married | Mar 16, 2013
Female, >50 years, Married | Mar 16, 2013
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Lights? What lights? Doesn't matter at all. Visual stimulation is always an important component of the excitement.
Either
depends on what's going on. if it's one of those late night "oh look we're both awake, lets have sex" then no, lights off. but if, say, it's a saturday night, we're home from dinner and drinks and the mood is a bit more, uhm, rambunctious, then it's light's on all the way...
Lights off candles lit! 😊
on! :D i love to see her beauty! :D it ignites me!
Doesn't matter, as long as we are together😘
I like a little light. My favorite light is a black light bulb in our regular lamp. It makes us look tan and in better shape. So we aren't inferior toward one another.
I love the lights on, I love to feel her sexy body but I love even more looking at it.
ON. I love watching him :)
Off, and I thought most did. Not because you don't want to see your partner.
I prefer the lights off because of the intimacy it sets but I have great eye sight. My wife likes the lights off too but she can hardly see with them on anyway 😬
I prefer the lights off because of the intimacy it sets but I have great eye sight. My wife likes the lights off too but she can hardly see with them on anyway 😬
