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Do you prefer to be intimate with the lights off, or on?
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I like to keep the lights on! I'm a visual person. It really turns me on and makes the experience more enjoyable watching her.
Off doesn't bother me. But I prefer lights on so I can see him.
I like the lights on.. I love to look at her beautiful body, smile and face at "that" time! she is so pretty
candles and other fun lights just for atmosphere. The big overhead not my fav. Full dark with the moon is always a plus.
On or off is good - I like to see your eyes.......
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lights on but not too bright
I prefer the lights off with a candle burning. I like to be able to see her sexy body and make eye contact, but with the ambience of a dim light.
I LOVE seeing her in a hecka bright lights!!! that way I can not miss a thing cause its magic the way she looks and does what she does :)
but I do love making it all romantical like for her by turning off the lights or just using the Christmas tree lights outside ;) ;)
but I do love making it all romantical like for her by turning off the lights or just using the Christmas tree lights outside ;) ;)
Lights on. Love seeing her sexy curves
On... I like to see what I'm doing.. If ya know what I mean LMAO!!
I like the lights on because I like to see her doing what she does 😍
I like it light on because I like what I see. I enjoy seeing his facial expression and beautiful penis.
You and my Penis! Such a pair.
Male, >50 years, Married | Mar 15, 2013
Male, >50 years, Married | Mar 15, 2013
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Usually lights are on - and by lights I mean candle light or our wonderful neon moon we've had since college - though there have been times in the dark that are exciting - since we know each other's bodies so well - but I prefer the lights - and a mirror....
