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Do you prefer to be intimate with the lights off, or on?
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On on so I can see her hot body
I perfer to be intimate lighting is not an issue
We like them on, but turned down low... ;)
Doesn't matter for us, if its dark and we want to see, lights come on. If we want it dark, we turn off the lights and draw the curtains. Simple as that.
I like it both ways.
Soft lighting, candles or xmas lights... enhance the romance
I agree
Male, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Feb 25, 2013
Male, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Feb 25, 2013
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soft lighting is always good with good music and perhaps a fermented beverage
It doesnt matter i guess.. There have been times i asked him to turn them off because i HATE my body. But other times they are ok to be on
I love the lights so I can cherish my wife's beautiful body.
Off
Lights on ... Or off
I like it best when it's dim. Better ambiance. But I dot mind when they are completely off or completely on.
I prefer it with the lights off. I rather enjoy the dark. I am, however, a night owl :)
Definitely off
i like it outside.
