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Do you prefer to be intimate with the lights off, or on?


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It didn't use to matter if lights were on/off when we were making love. after 3 kids & 100lbs, I prefer lights off, although he'd prefer them to be on.... he loves me big or small. I seem to turn him on no matter what I look like. :0) I just want to be comfortable with me again, so I can feel & act sexy around him like I used to! 💋
Female, 41-50 years, Married, CA, US • • Comment
I can totally relate... Except I Dnt have kids!!! Lol
Female, <20 years, Dating | Feb 06, 2013

It's nice to know I'm not alone! sucky feeling for us to share though! I'm doing AWESOME things w/the Lose It! app & it's freaking easy to use! When you enter in your food you can scan the barcode & you can even build a recipe that way. I hope you get to see this message. Good luck with un-feeling the way we do!!!! It's crappy it's all in our own heads! 😒
Female, 41-50 years, Married, CA, US | Feb 06, 2013

Try just candle light. He will love it because you are showing a confident step which will be a huge turn on. The soft light will make you feel less vulnerable. Good luck ladies! Trust that you are beautiful.
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 10, 2013

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On. I love to be able to see him and to see the way he looks at me. Occasionally it can be fun to fumble around in the dark but I would much rather have some lighting, at least a candle.
Female, 36-40 years, Dating • • Comment

Both. Depends on location & mood.
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, VIC, AU • • Comment

I'm more comfortable with them off. I'm a bit self conscious about my body after gaining 45lbs.
Female, <20 years, Dating • • Comment

Love the lights on so I can see my wife's sexy body !!
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating • • Comment
Yeah, she is pretty sexy.
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Feb 12, 2013

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Ha, either. It doesn't stop us. He loves my body and I love seeing him do his thing... So hot.
Female, 36-40 years, Engaged • • Comment
I love it when you watch me do my thing and you bite your lip and roll your eyes back. So fucking sexy.
Male, 26-30 years, Dating | Feb 08, 2013

Baby! Lol! Other people can see this! ;)
Female, 36-40 years, Engaged | Feb 08, 2013

Lol oops 😳 sorry honey. 😚
Male, 26-30 years, Dating | Feb 08, 2013

Haha is okay baby.
Female, 36-40 years, Engaged | Feb 08, 2013

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