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Do you prefer to be intimate with the lights off, or on?
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I prefer dim lighting, otherwise I'd rather they were off than be on completely
I have no preference, we tend to be intimate with the lights on, which is nice so we can look at each other's enjoyment.
doesn't matter to me as long as we're having fun!
both!
I think lights on is more fun.
Somewhere in the middle.... I don't like the lights on don't find it as romantic, unless of coarse isa quickie or hay of the moment then lights on is appropriate. Like the light of TV on so the mood is set and can still see Zohan!!! :)
either way, as long as we enjoy ourselves
Offfff
Either
I love both. I like the lights on so I can look into her beautiful eyes, so I can admired her curves an grace and she show me her feeling for me. I love caress her in the dark, knowing all her features and spots. I love the sounds her sound of ecstasy I'm th dark.
lights on...I love seeing his faces
I love both. Each is exciting in its own way.
I like somewhere in between...shades of gray.
Me too. It feels more intimate and romantic too.
Female, <20 years, Married | Nov 29, 2013
Female, <20 years, Married | Nov 29, 2013
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Either... I just love him touching me in any way
I'm a visual person but love the soft touch of her- so either way I am happy as long as I am with her and she is enjoying herself
