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Do you prefer to be intimate with the lights off, or on?
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doesn't matter I just love having sex with him!! although he did put these red light bulbs in my lamp and it make for a sexy mood!
My preference is candlelight or lights dimmed, it's much more romantic and flattering :))
I definitely prefer the lights on. I want to see my partner shudder with pleasure... :)
And I like when you watch me ;-)
Female, 36-40 years, Married, NY, US | Dec 09, 2013
Female, 36-40 years, Married, NY, US | Dec 09, 2013
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Low lights or candles so I can still see he eyes , lips and sexy body
No preference! All I care is being with my husband!
Either, I love to look at my husband when we make love. I can honestly say that my husband is hands down the most handsome man I've ever seen, looking at him when we're intimate is amazing.
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I guess my preference is for subdued lighting, but its certainly not a mood-killer to have lights on. I also like a black light - it makes anything white she is wearing glow!
It depends, both really, but lights on with a blindfold so I can't see what's coming next is definitely hot ;)
On, to see everything. ;)
On mostly, however, off would be fine too....;)
OFF!!!
*laughs* i really dont know! Position, i can answer but lights..? Omg. I really never thought of that one lolz. Depends on situation and who lolz. If the lights were on, id leave it on. If it was off, i wouldnt grab the lights flip it for a quick "hm... lets check this out Situation." So i guess my preference is er go with the flow and try not think/worry bout "lights"
Candle lights
