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Do you prefer to be intimate with the lights off, or on?
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It really doesn't matter to me I don't mind when the lights are on but sometimes I feel more confident when the lights are off either way I just like being intimate with you I don't care what the lighting is
Me gusta con luz baja, pero definitivamente con luz de velas es aun mas romantico
I couldn't agree with you more. I like seeing your body and your face when we are together.
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Mar 23, 2014
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Mar 23, 2014
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You know me, it really doesn't matter. Depends on the situation, I 'spose... natural sunlight, moonlight, starlight, LED, dimmed incandescent, its all good. The only one that would be kinda weird would be flourescent, but that might be cool if it implied an office, or camping... I look forward to black lights, blues, greens and reds. And some christmas lights bondage if I do suggest so myself!
Depends on the mood..but either is fine by me
Lights on or at least candle light but sun light is the best:) like out in a corn field.
Loved the corn field!! :) :) :)
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, ID, US | Mar 07, 2014
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, ID, US | Mar 07, 2014
Cornfields are the best! :-)
Female, >50 years, Married | Mar 24, 2014
Female, >50 years, Married | Mar 24, 2014
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Off!! I hate the lights being on
ON- because he likes to watch. And when he's excited I get more so.
A little of both. With the lights on I can see her beautiful body and with the lights off it's just a fun adventure
Depends on the mood either way works well there are sometime I want to observe and take in her beauty and other times where when the lights are off it can create a different mood and different feelings of intimacy
Either works for me! :)
On.. Soft lights though.. Keeps it romantic!
Indirect, soft lighting is best. Bright light is harsh and not relaxing. Darkness prevents me from seeing my husband's gorgeously manly physique. I love seeing his body! A soft, warm
light is romantic and shows of his pecs snd biceps and abs. I will never ever tire of that sight! Meow!
light is romantic and shows of his pecs snd biceps and abs. I will never ever tire of that sight! Meow!
On when I'm feeling sexy. I like when you like what you see.
On, because I like to see your gorgeous body.
Male, 41-50 years, Domestically Partnered | Apr 13, 2014
Male, 41-50 years, Domestically Partnered | Apr 13, 2014
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Just a dim light enough to see my lovely wife!
With at least some light on so I can see what I'm doing. Nothin' like going in for a kiss and finding only chin lol
