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Do you prefer to be intimate with the lights off, or on?
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It doesn't matter. I am comfortable with my partner.
Depends on the situation and mood.
I enjoy it both ways. Sometimes I just wanna be able to see her pussy and watch me stroke her lol
Lights off and candles, I like to set the tone with lights and music.
Ditto
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, MT, US | Sep 07, 2014
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, MT, US | Sep 07, 2014
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Doesn't matter it ends up happening with or without the lights
I'll take intimacy in any light....and there are advantages in all lighting...
Yes. Both. Either. Gettin' it on, yes.
prefer dim or dark but just one tiny drop of light would not be a bad thing.
Sometimes on, sometimes off, depends on our mood and what senses we are most trying to excite.
I like it when the lights are off or at least when the lights are dim.
Sometimes on, sometimes off. Sometimes it's just a matter of whether they were on or off when we started lol
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I used to prefer off. But now I enjoy looking at my SO
I like the lights off. She the same.
Lights on because she has the perfect body. Im not kiddding. 12/10
