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Do you prefer to be intimate with the lights off, or on?
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Depends on the mood.
Lights off, but not totally dark, I wanna see his face.
Whatever he wants
Doesn't really matter to me
I know that she and I have talked about it and we both prefer it be by candlelight. Not exactly light or dark, but it sets a mood for the moment.
Doesn't really matter to me. I'm comfortable either way. It can't be too dark though because I like to look at his face.
Lights on! Enough said...
On. No doubt. Full blast with the cameras hooked up to the TV so we can watch the action up close 😏
Lights on, usually, so we can see each other while we can (long distance relationship)
Either. Lights on I get to see how beautiful every little piece of her is!! Lights off can be very intimate and erotic
Either. I think there should be a mix of both in a good secure relationship. You should be confident with your partner.
I like it with the lights dimmed. I think my partner is the most attractive woman walking on this planet, so I enjoy watching her as I make love to her.
Doesn't matter as long as you are there 😂
I prefer the lights on. He has such a nice body and I like to be able for us to make eye contact. But it can be exciting in the dark because there is a surprise element.
I Like it dark but with some light. Not pitch black.
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Feb 24, 2015