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In a long-term relationship, how many times a week would you like to ideally have sex?
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3 times a week
Whenever the moods right
Duh all day everyday 3 times a day :P
Her sex drive is crazy.. For me once a day would b great
I would have to agree with my wife. Every day would be great. But every other day will suffice. But it can't be planned out. It has to happen naturally.
It depends
I think the frequency will shift throughout the relationship. I trust communication can be open so that desire can easily enter. I can't put a number on something as wondrous and at times fraught as sex.
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Male, >50 years, Domestically Partnered, CA, US | Apr 16, 2012
Male, >50 years, Domestically Partnered, CA, US | Apr 16, 2012
HA HA!
Female, >50 years, Married, OR, US | Apr 17, 2012
Female, >50 years, Married, OR, US | Apr 17, 2012
You see where there might be a disconnect? :)
Female, >50 years, Domestically Partnered, CA, US | Apr 22, 2012
Female, >50 years, Domestically Partnered, CA, US | Apr 22, 2012
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Ideally every day twice a day
Every day would be nice but I'll take whenever I can get it.
Man u know u can "get it" every day stop playin ;)
Female, >50 years, Domestically Partnered, MD, US | Apr 15, 2012
Female, >50 years, Domestically Partnered, MD, US | Apr 15, 2012
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We have spurts where it's multiple times a day everyday then we'll go 3-4 days without. Either way is fine with me:)
Once a day would be ideal. But I expect that the change as our sex drives change.
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3-4 times a week!
Ideally twice a day everyday. A good morning and a goodnight.
Just whenever it happens. I don't think I could put a number on it.
