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In what simple ways would you like to see your partner grow in the next year? How do you want to grow yourself?
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Believe in herself because she has so much untapped greatness. I would like to improve my empathy
I'd like for him to be more confident about himself, his appearance, his weight, his abilities, skills, strengths, etc,
I'd like for him to find the job that he is most happy with or has a passion for.
I'd like him to try out at the drums and be more initiative in things like putting his cork board that has been wrapped in a plastic bag for months up.
I'd like to be less negative about things around me or life in general.
I'd like for him to find the job that he is most happy with or has a passion for.
I'd like him to try out at the drums and be more initiative in things like putting his cork board that has been wrapped in a plastic bag for months up.
I'd like to be less negative about things around me or life in general.
GET DAT INTERNSHIP! :D but a simpiler? get more time to himself, so he can exercise and meditate like he use to :3
Me? I'd like to be more focused and more relaxed at the appropriate times. "Be more appropriate." I think that fits.
Me? I'd like to be more focused and more relaxed at the appropriate times. "Be more appropriate." I think that fits.
For him to be happier, more relaxed family time, move on with work, same for myself
Taking a more romantic way to approach sex, rather than a porn approach
I would like to see him spend more time with us as a family. Leave work and house behind just for a while. I want to be more committed to my health, as I know that is important to him as well. I also want to be more patient - slower to anger and quick to forgive.
I would like her to grow to be more confident. Confident with her self and all. And I would like to see her get her national teachers cert.
be more open about her feelings and about herself all together. I want to be more confident in myself.
I'd LOVE to see him focus on himself, in every area. Really take some time to figure out exactly what he wants in every area of his life. I hope to see him be able to not let other people's poor decisions affect him so much, and see him get back to his healthy insanely buff self- although I love him as is, I just want HIM to be happy. I love you so much, babe! Be happy this year! One more year, one more deployment, then we are DONE!!!
I'd like to get rich
Moving up in his company or finding something better, finishing this semester and making progress next semester, and maybe a little more settled and relaxed in his life, in his own place rather than a rented room
Great wife and the best daughter in law
Open up and trust in herself, let go of past harm. I can always be more understanding and less critical.
I just want for both of us to grow closer to each other, physically and mentally. Long distance is so hard that growth in the communication between us could always be better, but that is one of the aspects that will always be tough :)
I want to see his business grow and I want him to grow to be a great husband and future father. I hope to grow financially and in my career and grow as a better wife. I want us both to grow spiritually.
