Icebreakers
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In what simple ways would you like to see your partner grow in the next year? How do you want to grow yourself?
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Worry less.
Me, to be more independent.
Me, to be more independent.
Him: be the best entrepreneur
Me: succeed at all my goals
Me: succeed at all my goals
I'd like to be more fiscally responsible, and perhaps more compassionate. I hope that she becomes more confident in herself and her abilities, so that she begins to use all the talents she has.
I want us to move in together... merge all of our stuff and settle down! I want to be a bit better about keeping the clutter under control!
He tends to try to avoid problems or troublesome issues in his life, and I would like to see him grow in tackling them head on a bit more. As for myself, I'd like to better learn how to take into consideration how he deals with things instead of always trying to force my way upon him.
For the wife, to become responsible for her actions and choices. Take better care of herself. How am I suppose to be happy with her if she can't even be happy with her own self.
For me, to let go of alot of the resentment I have for her for things that have gone on over the past 11 years.
For me, to let go of alot of the resentment I have for her for things that have gone on over the past 11 years.
I want my partner to have more patience & not get easily bored because we are at a point where our lives are becoming a bit boring :)
I want to have more energy & manage stress better.
I want to have more energy & manage stress better.
Spend some more time together.
I'd like to be more disciplined. I'd like my partner to try new activities (am stealing from someone who answered previously - good answer!)
I'd love to see my fiance spend time away from the tv. I'd like to start my own business.
Try some new activities.
Be more affectionate.
Be more affectionate.
