Icebreakers
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In what simple ways would you like to see your partner grow in the next year? How do you want to grow yourself?
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I want us both to grow into people who can handle an argument better. We both turn into five year olds at this point. Also I want us to grow into being great confident parents. Can't wait to meet our spawn! ;)
I want to continue to expand my comfort zone with crowds. I want my partner to develop life skills.
Be more aware, be braver
We could both grow more when it comes to handling our finances and also with communicating with one another and I wouldreally like if he wouldn't let every little minor thing stress him out
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Is there anything I could put here that wouldn't create an argument????
I want to make healthier decisions for myself.
I want to make healthier decisions for myself.
I'd like us both to take health a little more seriously. I need to lose weight and exercise more, she needs to drink more water and exercise too
I would like him to believe in himself more. I would like to learn to relax more and not stress so much over little things.
Become more intuitive and outwardly expressive with her emotions.
I'd like to see him choose healthier foods and a healthy lifestyle so he can lose some weight and not worry about becoming diabetic. I want to be more healthy and focused in school.
Opine less listen more for Linda, Listen and engage more for me
I would like to see him let go off the stress he carries with him. I would like be able to be more responsible with my finances.
Become more direct, learn how to look at her phone every few hours, enjoy hanging out etc.
Simple? Is anything in an ongoing and meaningful relationship ever really simple? We both need to grow in the direction of self-worth and openness.
I would love to see her see herself more valuable. I want to become more confident
