Icebreakers
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In what simple ways would you like to see your partner grow in the next year? How do you want to grow yourself?
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I would like her to become a nicer person. I would like to become a more responsible person.
I would like to see him gain his degree and get settled into a position that he loves. I would love to continue training and finally finish a marathon!
I would like him to get into more things other than work, it just consumes him. On the other hand I would like to get into some kind of professional field
I would like my partner to follow her ideas through, knowing that I will support her. I would like her to find balance and happiness on a daily basis.
I would like to find an endeavor I'm passionate in and run with it. I want to relax but also make the best use of my free time. Learn everyday.
I would like to find an endeavor I'm passionate in and run with it. I want to relax but also make the best use of my free time. Learn everyday.
Breaking old habits of walls and running. Staying and fighting, not literally, but learning to argue constructively once all the parameters and trust is established fully
I'd like for him to learn more about financial decisions and how to save for a realistic retirement.For me: to find little ways to be more happy with my job and get some hobbies of my own, make some new friends.
Get some formal certification or take a class instead of just studying on my own.
I'd like to see him become more outgoing in school. I know that's hard, but I know it would make him happy to have more friends. &, I want to grow in a lot of ways. I wouldn't even know where to start.
I want her to more open and honest with me. I want to improve my understanding of her needs and strive to meet them.
I would love to see him find balance, minimize the chaos, less socialization that is unnecessary, be content with people having their own opinions without having to voice his and be less combative in verbal debates. This could be an issue for long term.
I'd like him to not be so pushy personally. I'd like to calm myself down.
finished College, start a new happy life with mature thinking of ilfe.
I would like to see my spouse's confidence and self-esteem grow. She has all the right tools, she just has to find the manual inside of her in order to become what she will feel great about. Me:Get over my jealous tendencies. I am not bad but I don't want any feelings of jealousy at all.
I want to stop being a loser. I know that much.
You're not a loser
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, CA, US | Sep 19, 2011
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, CA, US | Sep 19, 2011
am too
Male, 31-35 years, Dating | Sep 23, 2011
Male, 31-35 years, Dating | Sep 23, 2011
Are. Not
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, CA, US | Sep 23, 2011
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, CA, US | Sep 23, 2011
am toooooooooo
Male, 31-35 years, Dating | Sep 23, 2011
Male, 31-35 years, Dating | Sep 23, 2011
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I'd like to see both of us become more open to new things (and to get out there and do 'em). Fallen into a rut after twelve years, now its time for us to get out.
