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In what simple ways would you like to see your partner grow in the next year? How do you want to grow yourself?
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Jobs and being happy in our new life paths
I would like them to trust me more and not worry about loosing me all the time
be more open about her feelings and about herself all together. I want to be more confident in myself.
I want to be more confident, healthy, thinner. I want to have a career.
I'd like my other half to just be a better version of who is currently is :)
I'd like my other half to just be a better version of who is currently is :)
If like him to relax more and not take life so seriously. Id also like it if he took more of an interest in me. Ill try to be more romantic and affectionate
I would like my partner to be more confident in what he has to offer in teh workforce. He's got soo much going for him, I hope he knows it and feels confident to share that with prospective employers.
I'd like for him to be more confident about himself, his appearance, his weight, his abilities, skills, strengths, etc,
I'd like for him to find the job that he is most happy with or has a passion for.
I'd like him to try out at the drums and be more initiative in things like putting his cork board that has been wrapped in a plastic bag for months up.
I'd like to be less negative about things around me or life in general.
I'd like for him to find the job that he is most happy with or has a passion for.
I'd like him to try out at the drums and be more initiative in things like putting his cork board that has been wrapped in a plastic bag for months up.
I'd like to be less negative about things around me or life in general.
I just want for both of us to grow closer to each other, physically and mentally. Long distance is so hard that growth in the communication between us could always be better, but that is one of the aspects that will always be tough :)
Great wife and the best daughter in law
Open up and trust in herself, let go of past harm. I can always be more understanding and less critical.
I want her to build her self-confidence & a happy home.
Natural happiness and better communication skills
I would like her to accept herself and not feel like he needs to punish herself for stuff in the past. She has done so many great things that they vastly out weigh the bad things.
If I could only figure out what those "great" things you talk about are.
Female, >50 years, Married, CO, US | Jan 31, 2013
Female, >50 years, Married, CO, US | Jan 31, 2013
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I would like to see him spend more time with us as a family. Leave work and house behind just for a while. I want to be more committed to my health, as I know that is important to him as well. I also want to be more patient - slower to anger and quick to forgive.
I'm trying not to grow!! Already an XL
