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In what simple ways would you like to see your partner grow in the next year? How do you want to grow yourself?
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Want her to grow on not having to be in control and supervise and criticize. I want to grow sexually and speaking my mind.
I'd love for him to be more confident. I think he'll be a great dad if he puts his mind to it, but he still needs some convincing. I'd also like to see him be able to overcome his depression. I'd like to be able to learn to stop worrying so much over everything (working on that now), and have some confidence in my ability to become a mom.
I would like his growth to be more spiritually and emotionally focused. I would like to focus my growth on the same and become more self aware, because somehow I lost the person I was many years ago.
Find a million bucks on the street please lol
I would like for us to grow as a couple. To be able to communicate with you efficiently and clearly. To be able to come together and talk to each other about all of our emotions and conflicts, to be able to resolve it together.
I want to grow in confidence, to be able to better myself and be able for you to lean on for support.
I want to grow in confidence, to be able to better myself and be able for you to lean on for support.
I'd like to see him go into business for himself & I'd like to finish college.
Progress with leaving luther... Talking things out
Luther and less self-dislike..Less hurtful comments in conflicts
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, MD, US | Dec 11, 2014
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, MD, US | Dec 11, 2014
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I rather I answer this one later babe. Ask me if you want. After this morning I'm not ready.
I would like her to cure from her panik attacks, from myself i want to be its ok again
I'd like us both to learn how awesome a massage chair could be. :-}
Communication. I'd like for us to reach a point where I know how to appropriately approach you with emotion or conflict. I'd like for us to be able to quickly and efficiently understand each other's emotions and thoughts and focus only on making sure that whatever resolution we land on is chosen only to fuel progress In our relationship and to ensure each others love tanks are full.
I would like to see her see more of the great things she does and realize more of her strengths.
Be more open. Not be so shy about talking About stuff. Same.
She is used to having things done for her by ex bf's so if i can help her gain a bit more confidence in herself for being self sufficient that would be wonderful. I just want us to be happy and not fuss over stupid stuff. Its going great so far :)
I want us to both lose weight and adopt a healthier lifestyle. It's gonna be hard, but we have each other. I know we can do it.
