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What is the best surprise you've ever given your partner?
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I threw a Surprise Party for his 24th birthday. We were just best friends at the time and had a blast that night. I remember I used a female products excuse to get him to the party destination that night. He also really irked his current girlfriend that night which began the demise of their coco relationship. Really fun great memories were made that night! I want to go back in a time machine.
Telling her that I would come to be with her in Koreeea!
Personally, I think it was the day she came home from deployment and I surprised her at the airport with two limos (one for her, and one for her luggage). I left instructions with the drivers to drive her to a remote park where I would be waiting to welcome her home. She was surprised :)
I secretly made her a montage video on her birthday and let her watched just as the midnight turned. She broke down to happy tears.
I've surprised honey so many times. I've sent her food when she was feeling down, surprised her outside her class, but my favorite was when I surprise her with flowers because she loves them so much
Probably when I got pizza delivered to his door when he was feeling down. I'm not romantic, and not good at surprises. He's the one who's always giving me surprises that actually make me burst out in tears of joy (:
I would have to say a marriage proposal Saturday night takes the cake!
Stuff for his bed.
When we were still in a long-distance relationship, I picked him up at the airport dressed like an anime schoolgirl. Sex ensued.
A letter? I don't know
I think a positive pregnancy test...
In the classic sense of surprises, probably our engagement night along with the custom made wedding ring, or the matching band for our 10 year anniversary. I also think sneaking in our huge dining room table was a very fun surprise!
There are a lot of good ones I've never been able to follow through on. My plans would get foiled last minute. I've wanted to throw surprise staycations in the yard. I have a bag full of luau materials. And wanted to leave notes on his car, but I don't know where his office is. But, probably the best is when I got him a corsair model. He really liked it.
Baby?
It is yet to come. I think I actually might make it this year without spilling the beans. I am not so good at keeping gifts a secret. I love to give gifts all year long. I am not especially excited about keeping secrets about gifts, they should be given all year long all the time instead of a ton of them one time a year. so, I sure hope I can make it the next few days. Only next week right. Crap we are only on Monday...10 days to go.
