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Are you the more dominant or submissive one in the relationship? How do you feel about that?
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I feel like we are both equally dominant. He likes being dominant most of the time though. I think it's good that we're equal because it means we're both equal in the relationship.
submissive. I love when he is dominant
I think I am quite dominant and I like to be. But again I also like him to be dominant sometimes and he knows when he should be and when he shouldn't ;) :P
we sometimes clash here. both trying to be dominant. I wish we did not. it doesn't make me feel like we are working as efficiently as a team. it is a turn on when she is submissive and it makes me want to do more for her.
Submissive. I like it.
I would say I'm more submissive but I'm ok with that. I love when my husband takes control and makes decisions. I know he always has my best interest at hand and would never hurt me. he knows me better than I know myself.
I think we are dominant in different aspects which suits me fine.... We are both quite confident so there is no struggle for attention. 😎
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Male, 41-50 years, Dating | Dec 09, 2012
Male, 41-50 years, Dating | Dec 09, 2012
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Both depending on the situation
I am the more dominant one which turns me on sexually but turns her off.
We are both dominant! But while I am dominant my fiance is opposite (vise Versa)
Submissive in the bedroom... I love that she knows what she wants!
depends on the day... i like bouncing back and forth.
Ortiz is the boss :(
I want to be submissive, but i end up being dominant because she wants to be submissive and doesn't like being dominant. While me being dominant turns her on, it makes me feel odd.
I'm probably more dominate generally but we both have parts of our life and relationship where one person takes over a bit.
