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Are you the more dominant or submissive one in the relationship? How do you feel about that?
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We are equal alphas. He is the quiet strong one and I'm the boisterous, energy charged one.
We may joke and "argue" about who the boss is in the relationship. But I think it's even most of the time, we work together on making decisions and solving problems
Both depending on who it is.
he is mostly but I like to lead sometimes
Submissive but depends on my mood , I can always change it up unexpectedly.
Ha I'm the dominate one in the relationship! At times... We are both two Alfa Male/Female, and too hard headed to budge but we are equally dominate in our ways and constantly fight for control and power
We are both dominate which is a complicated situation. But sometimes I feel I have to be the more submissive one because if not, we will never budge. Sometimes that worries me because Id like to know he'd budge too. But deep down I believe we both know that we'd never let it get that far to the point where our stubbornness takes control over our love and relationship.
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, FL, US | Dec 19, 2012
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, FL, US | Dec 19, 2012
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We keep it pretty equal but I want him to be the leader. Men are meant (by God) to be the leaders.
Im more dominant. One could say overbearing. I know thats one of those things i gotta change.
ich glaube das hält sich die waage.
She's my alpha female and im her alpha male.
Completely true.
Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, CA, US | Dec 23, 2012
Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, CA, US | Dec 23, 2012
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Submissive I don't feel like myself anymore.....
I make myself less dominant, because since I make all the decisions at work it's nice to follow orders at home.
Dominant. Feels good!
More dominant for day to day stuff, more submissive in the bedroom... And when it comes to planning anything
Submissive. Nothing I say goes and it's getting old fast .i told him recently that I need to be dominant... Hasn't happened
I don't agree, but ill pay attention to that...
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, CA, US | Dec 17, 2012
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, CA, US | Dec 17, 2012
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