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Are you the more dominant or submissive one in the relationship? How do you feel about that?
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It depends on what it concerns, he makes more money, but I make sure all the bills are paid and the kids are always taken care of etc
I suppose I'm dominant and controlling most of the time but like being submissive in bed :*
Submiss, I'm emotional and sensitive. She takes charge
She says since I'm the breadwinner I need to start taking charge ;)
I'd like to say we're equal, but I am more dominant ):
I think I'm more dominant in the relationship overall, but I am submissive when in come to some things. I like to have things done my way (not always the best) but I tend to be submissive when it come to my feelings and what not. I don't think it's the best thing to do but it's how I have always been
Dominant, and I don't like it. I want to make it where it's equal.
Submissive, and it really depends on the situation
Idk I wonder wat he thinks
We're both very laid back. It depends on the situation. She loves for me to be dominant. ;)
I'd say I'm more dominant, I'm the bossy one. I don't think it's bad, I don't control him but I think I nag a bit too much
Dominant but I'd rather he be the dominant one. He's too carefree and I have to micromanage too much of our relationship to keep bills paid, house clean, kids taken care of.
It's a little of both with us, I'm usually submissive but there are times when I get to be dominant as well...it's pretty equal so that's good I suppose!
submissive.....and I like it.
We follow a 51/49 rule, we change off who gets that 1%
